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With his glossy hair, flawless tan, gleaming smile and romantic
pop songs, David Cassidy was the heart-throb of a generation of
teenagers.
The star of hit TV series The Partridge Family, he sold
25 million records to a fan base bigger than Elvis and the Beatles
combined - all before his 24th birthday. But plagued by
depression and unable to reconcile his abusive relationship with his
alcoholic father, the pop idol eventually turned to drink and
drugs.
Today, at 53, he has regained some of his former glory. He
can still pull a crowd - albeit a rather more mature assembly of
women in their forties who‘ve kept the faith - and last year he
released a successful "Best of" album.
But life is not all sweet. For, in a bitter irony, the man
adored by legions of teenagers cannot win the affections of his own
daughter, 17-year-old Katie. Her good looks mark her out as
David‘s flesh and blood but her ambitions to be a pop star - which
she hoped might unite her with her father - have, she says, caused a
bitter rift. Indeed, Katie has not spoken to her father for 18
months.
She wants to follow his success with her own version of his hit
I Think I Love You. But, Katie says, her father is
unhappy about sharing the limelight.
She says, "I have never had what you would call a normal
relationship with him. When I told him I wanted to be a
singer, he told me he wanted nothing to do with it. He cut me
out of his life completely and I haven‘t heard from him since.
"He tried to make out it was for my own good because he wanted to
protect me but he was the same age as I am when he started out so I
don‘t get it. It hurts because he‘s my father and all fathers
should support what their child does. He should know my mum
would never let me do something that‘s going to hurt me."
Katie‘s mother, Sherry Benedon, a 50-year-old ex-model and
bit-part actress, is the typical Hollywood mum. She started an
on-off relationship with David when she auditioned for The
Partridge Family - and the affair continued throughout the
1970s and 1980s, even though he married twice.
When Sherry fell pregnant with Katie, she says David took the
news "with some difficulty". Katie considers her stepfather
physician Richard Benedon, her "real dad". |
"I always knew who my father was," says Katie. "If he
doesn‘t want a relationship with me, it‘ll hurt but I have a
stepfather who‘s basically my father.
"Hopefully, I‘ll be successful but I‘ll do it my way. I
want to have a voice to say what I think."
Katie has also signed up to a model agency. But Sherry
rebuts any idea she is exploiting the Cassidy name and a painful
family rift to launch Katie‘s career. She says, "This is not
about trying to cash in. David supported Katie
financially. That‘s what makes his actions now seem so
hateful."
For his part, David does not want his daughter to endure the fame
that nearly destroyed him and says that pushing children into
showbusiness is "like sticking a needle in their arm".
Poignantly, given his break with his daughter, David has accused
his late father, alcoholic actor Jack Cassidy, of being the cause of
his own problems.
David says, "All I ever wanted was for him to put his arms around
me and say, "I love you, I‘m so proud of you." And he
couldn‘t. The more successful I became, the more it pushed him
away from me."
It seems Katie and her father are tragically united in one thing
- their unrequited desire for a father‘s
love. |